Have you been referred to the Fertility Clinic at all? I was 35 when we started ttc, and down to my age, plus the fact that my cycles were hideous (coudl be a month apart, could be 6 months apart), my doc at the time referred me straight away. I still had to wait to be seen (approx 6 mths) but at least I didn't have to wait for a year for the doc to refer me.
I also tried accupunture, but to be honest, I was trying anything at that stage and whilst it was nice and relaxing, I don't think it actually helped me to conceive, and it was costing a flipping fortune.
Long story short, we were seen at the clinic and put on clomid which worked, but I sadly had a mmc. More clomid and nothing, then I went on injectibles - not full flung IVF, but ovary stimulation. 2nd time it worked, and along came dc1. About 2.8 years later, along came dc2. It was a long jpurney, 3.5 years from start to dc1, and dc2 came along when I was 40!
For me it was all about me not ovukating regulary. When ttc no 2, I used Agnus Castus which you can get in Holland & Barretts. It's sometimes referred to as natures clomid. Obvs read up about it first and do some research, but maybe worth a try. I think that did the trick for me, although I do think my body righted itself a bit after being pregnant with no1.
PM if you have any questions. It can be a lonely journey and the guys don't really get it (and its tough for them too). Fingers crossed its a short journey though 