Hi, I'm new to this site living in hampshire, near southampton I'm an older mum just turned 40 with a twelve year old girl going on 16! I find myself having more time for me now as the majority of my daughters life I've been a single parent, now in a settled relationship I want to concentrate on building up my own social life a little and thought I'd give this a try so if there is anyone in my position feeling a bit lost to how to have more to life now the children are growing up I'd love to hear from you, I'm into all the girly things, coffee, wine, shopping, cinema etc.