My sons dad!

[Avajackmoomummy]

Hi lovely people of nottingham.

Hope you don't mind, I just need a bit of advice.

My eldest boy's father and I split up may '12, since then he has never paid a penny.

Today whilst shopping i bumped into his ex wife, with whom he has another two children with. She told me that whilst my son is in his fathers care every other weekend, she looks after my son whilst his father goes to work!

I am so cross I could literally cry! I just don't know what to do,. HELP

Hi there,

What a horrible surprise for you. I think on a topic like this, that isn't specifically 'local', you'll get more advice, faster, on Mumsnet's national site.

I'd suggest this section, as many people there will have experience of children spending time with a non-resident parent, maintenance or lack of it, and all the potential complications: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/lone_parents

Hope you find a good way to deal with this. Best of luck.