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Know a good mediator?

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ohsooootired · 19/12/2014 21:27

Hi

I'm looking at family mediation options for a review of maintenance arrangements with my ex. What I find really odd is that whilst mediators are registered via National Family Mediation or the Family Mediation council - once you go to the websites they expect you to book (for quite serious sums of money) without knowing anything about the individual who'll actually be doing the job.

I did a little research - and it turns out that the level of experience & training of a mediator can vary enormously. - They can be fabulous with many years of experience, or just a few hours. - Yet the mediation centres tend to charge one blanket rate.....They don't even put the bios of their mediators up on the website. You have no clue what you're getting.

I find this strange. - Can you imagine purchasing any other professional service costing in the £100s per hour (Doctor, lawyer, psychologist, coach etc.) without getting a clear breakdown on their bio and professional credentials?

Of course one can go to lawyer for mediation which does guarantee you a named person - but it works out a lot pricier - esp as non-lawyer mediators often scale fees by income, and I'm not working right now.

Any local recommendations? - I'm based near Kingston, but happy to travel a bit for someone who is good and reasonably priced.

Thanks.

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kingstoncherry · 19/01/2015 15:02

Hello, sorry you haven't had any feedback yet.

We've just shared your post via Twitter (@mumsnetkingston and @mumsnetsurrey) so hopefully you'll hear something soon.

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cariad59 · 26/01/2015 20:42

HI there,

I know a good mediator who can help. He is down the A3 from you, in Godalming, but worth the trip.
Euan Davidson at Godalming Family Mediation.
Good luck!
www.godalmingfamilymediation.co.uk/our-mediators/

SpaceOpera · 10/02/2015 17:41

I live very near Sutton and Godalming is a bit too far to travel to - wonder if anyone could help with recommendations for mediators closer to Sutton / Epsom / Croydon? Many thanks!

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