We're looking at schools for DS for Sept 13. We can't decide at all and have gone round and round in circles. We live locally so fully aware of no school links anymore. We'd probably get into Orleans but are not sure whether to go for it, or make real sacrifices to try to afford the Hampton or KGS fees. DS is bright, but passing an Inde exam is not a definite. He's sociable and fun but easily distracted and drawn to 'cheeky boys. He's sporty, musical and mathematical, but can be quite lazy and needs pushing or he'll do the minimum to get by.
I know someone who said the behaviour at Orleans was really not good in some lessons. Conversely friends with DC's there are happy and say it's only a small minority who cause problems and that dicipline's not an issue. Allowing for DC's character, do we try for Hampton/KGS where he'll be pushed to keep standards high, and where behavour's probably better, OR follow our ideals and go for a well thought of local comp and accept it's good and it's bad points and save ourselves the stress of finding school fees
What are your experiences please?