It's official, we're moving to Sheffield, with 3 daughters, 3, 5, 7. We thought we'd move to Nether Edge [we're coming up from Hackney, London] cos its pretty and got stuff going on and a fairly obvious choice, nice houses.... Now we've seen a very nice house in Totley, huge garden and 2 mins from open countryside. The question is will I go mad? Will everyone have their nose in my business [not that there's anything to hide]? ie is there a village mentality, or is it really just another part of Sheffield like any other? Will we feel too far out of the action, ie will we always be apologising for living out there...? I guess schools are also part of the equation, Porter Croft versus one of the Totley primaries? Any guidance gratefully received. Tx