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Desperate - please help!

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mum2all · 13/02/2011 18:56

No idea where to post this so apologies if this is in the wrong place but need some advice quickly.

My friend's husband has tried to commit suicide a couple of times this week and his behavious has become increasingly erratic and aggressive. She has spoken to the police, doctors and psychiatric assessment unit at the local hospital but all are unwilling or unbale to help unless he asks for it - one doctor even prescribed sleeping tablets, despite him trying to overdose??
As a result she fled to our house on Friday with her young DC. He phoned constantly throughout the night/early hours, leaving venomous messages when no one answered.
Flash forward to yesterday afternoon when he got drunk, attacked a friend (ripping his clothes), tried to kick in a shop window and then drew a knife and tried to 'stab' the same window cutting himself in the process. The shop owner called the police and he then barricaded himslef in his parents home and had to be forcibly removed with his hands and feet cuffed.
He is in police custody and will be assessed before appearing in court on Monday but we cannot get a straight answer from anyone as to what will happpen next, or even what might.

I suppose our questions are:
What are the chances of him getting a custodial sentence? (police think it's likely)
What are the chances of him being sectioned?
What happens if he turns up at the house comes for the DC?
Any advice at all?

We are in central Scotland if that makes any difference.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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RattysPicnic · 13/02/2011 21:50

Hi Mum2all, this is such a stress for you and your friend. Horrible. I'm wishing you both the best.

In the meantime there are some brilliant MN solicitor brains out there but I think you should put this on a topic board with more traffic so you can get a quicker response.

Try Chat or Relationships (or Legal but that's a bit slower, though will be good Monday morning) - there'll be good advice on all of them.

Good luck!

mum2all · 13/02/2011 22:02

Thanks Ratty, Have stuck it all over the place in the hopes of getting a response quickly - my friends just wants some kind of idea about what to do, what might happen next.

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ratspeaker · 13/02/2011 22:03

Hopefuly if he is to be assessed before court appearance they will see the state he's in and get him some help, thats what would happen in an ideal world
I second rattys idea of posting the questions again in chat where you'll get more responses

I wish you all well

SuzeBr · 15/02/2011 18:12

If he does get sectioned when assessed as having a psychiatric disorder (which seems likely from what you say) then they will take this into account at the court. I guess it depends on previous convictions if he will get a custodial sentence. Is the friend pressing charges for the assault? What is the charge? I don't know much about the criminal side more the psychiatric side (I am a mental health nurse). Sounds like he should be getting help from the health service and not the criminal side of things.
Hope it all works out.

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