Does eligibility for child related benefits on a 457 differ if your dc are born here?
Anyway, another Sydneysider here, originally from SE England.
I'm a SAHM, DH earns approx $120k. Mortgage is approx. $2800/month, we spend about $200 a week on food for family of four (Aldi's is walking distance
). However, although we are not struggling, we live in the western suburbs and don't have much money left over for fun stuff. We only have one car that is 10 years old.
We need a second income, but until DC2 starts school, I'm unlikely to earn enough to cover child care fees and have anything left over.
Despite this, I love Sydney. I even like our suburb, as we have great neighbours, DC1 goes to good local public school, there're good amenities, parks etc. If you're outdoorsy people, you'll love it here. Even if, like us, you can't afford to live in the most popular suburb.
Before we bought our house, we rented in the Inner West. If you decide to move here, I'd definitely recommend focusing on this area for renting. Transport into the city is good (20 mins by train from where we lived). You can still be close to the water as there are lots of harbourside suburbs, and the beach is about 30 mins drive.