I found 3 skirts in my sons room when tidying. So I asked him about them. He told me he bought them for himself and he thinks he is trans. He doesn't want his brothers to know or people at his school.
He is still in the unsure phase and wants to stay using the he pronoun and be called by his current name.
I told him that his dad and I love him and that he can be what he wants.
I said that his brothers may need to know because he should at least be able to he himself at home.
Not really sure what to do from here feel a bit lost tbh.