Help! Im not sure what to do. My partner has the most narcissistic ex iv ever come across. So much stuff he has done and gotten away with. Anyway, he has been manipulating her youngest daughter of 12. They share custody 50 50 although she officially lives here with her mum and me.
Slowly she has began to develop a hatred towards her mum that is just not justified. On friday, last day of term, we get a call from the school saying social services have been called because she has told them that her mum hits her and shouts at her.
She's never hit her and she very rarely shouts. Although the disrespect certainly warrants it sometimes.
She hasn't seen her daughter since. Social services aren't looking into it but the dad has cut off communication between mum and daughter and is refusing to let mum see her.
The daughter apparently told social services that she hates her mum and wants to live with dad. Its heatbraking.
Dad ls 47 and lives with his parents who largely fund him. He can't hold a steady job because he's " too good" for the position. Yet he has been spoiling her so much. Since Christmas he has bought her a bike for 2.5k and 3 guitars totally 600. Its not a crime but its clearly swaying the child's mind.
On Thursday her daughter was asking me to put up shelves to display her trophies and certificates and the next day all this happened. Its sickening and we just don't know where to go.