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Court agreed consent order, what if Ex doesnt cooperate?

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Bemyclementine · 17/06/2026 19:22

Consent order approved in face to face court hearing. I buy ex out for X amount, so i have a mortgage approved, the conveyencing solicitor has now said they will contact ex for his agreement??? He has twice got to the stage of me having a mortgage offer then refused to sign, hence me going to court and spending a fucking fortune that I dont have. I NEED this to go through quickly for financial reasons.

Has he got me over a barrel again? If he doesnt agree I have to go back to court, is this correct?

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stargirl27 · 17/06/2026 21:43

Yes you’d need to apply to enforce the order and you can also seek an order allowing the judge to sign instead of him. You can apply for a costs order given his unreasonableness (I’m a solicitor and in similar circumstances have successfully obtained costs orders)

Bemyclementine · 17/06/2026 21:54

@stargirl27 thank you. It just makes a mockery of the whole court process really doesnt it

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JohnofWessex · 17/06/2026 21:58

It's a pity that Count Orders don't come with built in enforcement

Bemyclementine · 17/06/2026 22:18

Isn't it? Yet another way to hang on to some control and cause me worry and stress.

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stargirl27 · 17/06/2026 22:40

Bemyclementine · 17/06/2026 21:54

@stargirl27 thank you. It just makes a mockery of the whole court process really doesnt it

Yes, it’s such a joke. Completely unfair that you have to go back to court. Do you have solicitors? I’d suggest a warning letter first to say if he doesn’t comply within X days or weeks, you’ll be enforcing the order and pursuing costs.

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