Hi, NC due to outing situation.
I have recently had a baby (younger than 6 months old) with my now ex-P (not married).
I found out he had been cheating using prostitutes since baby was 3 weeks old.
Obviously heartbroken but trying to get sensible hat on as I am now on maternity with 3 children to provide for.
I’ve had to move into my parents house with the 3 children as new house was miles away from any support network, ex has stayed in house. We are NC.
He has told a family member that he will continue to pay mortgage until sold as the agreement was he would pay all mortgage and bills when we moved in. Mortgage in both names. If he does make all mortgage payments from date I moved out, will he receive more than a 50% split of equity?
As not to drip feed my eldest 2 children aren’t his, we bought house from my family with a decent discount and I have contributed financially to renovation, likely around 65% of renovation costs.
He’s gone from being the most amazing man I’ve ever met to a monster in the space of 6 months and on reflection I am identifying manipulative and coercive behaviours and feel like an absolute fool for sacrificing everything for our ‘family’.
Ive no doubt he will be a selfish nasty tw@t from now and will of sought legal advice, I appreciate I need an appointment with a solicitor and I’m in the midst of arranging that but the mortgage payment is due soon so I need to make a call whether I’ll be contributing, obviously I could do with saving as much as possible given the sh*t situation he’s put us all in 😪