Hi there,
My partner has just come out of court in November after fighting to see his daughter. His ex withheld contact for nearly a year because we raised concerns regarding domestic abuse she was witnessing in their household after she made a disclosure to him.
Anyway.....we have a court order saying when he is to have his daughter and this weekend is meant to be today AND tomorrow (not overnight yet 🙄)
She has been excited all day about the plans we have for tomorrow but she has been back with her mum for 5 mins and she's claiming she no longer wants to see us tomorrow.
The ex keeps doing this....when it's meant to be our time with her she dangles a metaphoric carrot "do you want to see your Dad tomorrow or stay here and [insert fun activity] instead?"
And t make it worse, 9/10 times we find out she never gets to do the fun activity it's just a false promise so she misses contact.
What can we do?