My ex died 6 weeks ago. We were still married but had been separated for almost 4 years. We were married for 4 years. We have 2 children aged 7 and 5. My question is that I have not been told who the executor of his estate is and he had a flat that his family is already selling. Will I be told who the executor is? I would hope that the proceeds of his flat would go to the children but I haven't been told anything.