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Waiting on a court date how much contact is likely ??

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Happylittlebee89 · 31/05/2015 13:41

Hello

I have posted with regards to this before whilst pregnant now my son is 1 month old ! I have been told by my ex that I should expect a court date through the post in the next few days and Im panicking he is claiming that he will get my son a few hours every day and need to know if this is true ?? Slight background is that my ex partner finished our relationship when I told him I was pregnant he told me to get an abortion he is a recreational drug user and I have had the police involved with his friends for threats to kill whilst pregnant !! He has not made any effort to get in touch with me or ask to meet his son and won't call the baby by his name he refers to him as "that baby" I am a breastfeeding mammy and my son is fed on demand Im so worried that the court are going to make me express my milk or something so he can go to his dad's and this is causing me so much stress !! Also as I have suffered from poor mental health in the past he is using this against me he has messaged me telling me Im unfit to be a mother and so on although all professionals involved have said how amazing I am with my son !! I am so worried that the court process may effect my mental health and I don't want to end up depressed when Im so over the moon to be a mammy ! X

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whattodoforthebest2 · 09/06/2015 07:40

Hi OP, why don't you ask this question on the Legal Matters board? You could link to this thread for background, but there will be legal people on there who can give you advice.

Happylittlebee89 · 09/06/2015 08:11

How do I do fhat Im sorry Im so new to this haha x

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whattodoforthebest2 · 09/06/2015 08:27

I've asked MN to move it for you. You'll get legal eagles on there who'll be happy to help I'm sure. Smile

YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 09/06/2015 12:50

Hi happylittlebee89,
We've moved it for you now.

Happylittlebee89 · 09/06/2015 21:15

Thank you for doing that for me I have had good news today i had an appointment with social services and they have decided they no longer need to be involved so I am getting discharged from there services Smile

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whattodoforthebest2 · 09/06/2015 22:53

That's excellent news - well done. You must be really pleased - more proof that his claims are false.

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