Fil has a will leaving his house to DH & BIL.
BIL lives in the house with FIL.
When FIL dies, dh has said he would want the house sold. What about BIL as this is his home?
This isn't grabby, the three of them have been talking about this allot recently. DH is worried about where this leads in the event of FIL dying.
I have encouraged them to seek legal advice because I have seen this situation turn very nasty for some friends. Almost identical situation but 15 years ago.
Destroyed the remaining family relationship totally sadly.