I made a preliminary enquiry to a local church primary school ('school b') just around the corner from our primary school ('school a') and, on speaking to the head teacher there, I discovered that she had rung our school and told the headmistress that I (she used my full name) was thinking of moving our children to school B! Is it just me or does this come across as bragging/gossip, and am I right to feel annoyed? I was told "Oh, it's standard practice". Oh really? Does this not constitute a breach of my privacy? I had not made an application, nor even yet visited school b, so what possible valid reason can there have been for informing our current school?