i had a pension through fidelity quite a few years ago when i was working full time and i paid into it each month via my wage. Havent paid into it for about 6 years since having dc. I have no intention of paying into it again. Quite a few year back i rang and asked if they would give me back my money but they said no. Is this right? Its all my money, nothing was paid from my ex employer. It is about £4k which monthly amounts to naff all when i reach retirement age. But right now could really use that money!! Is this correct i have no right to it despite it being mine??