Asking on behalf of my dsis. Her husband left her last year with no explanation. He has suffered mh issues for most of their marriage. She has supported him through this working full time when he hasn't been able to work. He has continuously run up debt whilst they have been together. She has managed to just keep their head above water.
Since he left she has paid everything , mortgage etc She changed her bank account and has been keeping on top of things.
Unfortunately her house is in negative equity so she cannot get his name off the mortgage. She has been slowly making improvements to the property to try and raise the value.
All the time her exh (they aren't divorced) has been 'gone' he has been applying for loans with dodgy companies , had unpaid debt letters etc delivered to the marital home.
Culminating in this week having a letter saying a charging order will be placed on the property.
She is at the end of her tether with it all. If she could get the money together to divorce him would this help ?
Currently she is talking of walking away from it all , which is so sad after how hard she has worked.
Tia