I have 3 DC, 7,4 and 3 months. I always said if I had 3 then I'd have 4 (don't like odd numbers and I was one of three (another story).
Anyway when trying for no3 I had my 2nd ectopic pregnancy (have had one each side . We decided to take 1 more chance and go for no3 and luckily we got our beautiful baby girl. But we agreed what ever happened we would not try again mainly because of the risk of another ectopic.
I do feel sad that my baby will not be a baby for long and my girls are growing up (too fast!) and when I look at DD3 I think how could I not want to do it again?
It is tempting.........