What finally made you decide whether to go from 2-3 children (or not?)

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I seem to just going around in circles.

We have 2 dds aged almost 5yo and 21mo. Both took a while to conceive and both extremely wanted.

DH would definitely like another. We could afford another child. I'm not opposed to having another but I think I'd prefer dd2 to be nearer to starting nursery (so nearer to 3yo). I'm not overly keen on the idea of another ELCS (had one with dd2) ans recovery. I'd get over this ia we decided to try and were fortunate enough to conceive; but I just can't make my mind up whether to leave things as they are, or have another little baby! It would be fab to have a gang of girls, or two girls and a boy would be nice because we haven't experienced having a son so far.

I'm 31, and appreciate any pearls you might have because it's been on my mind for a while and I just don't know what to do

A very interesting read! I have two DSs 4.2yrs and 2.4yrs and have been broody for the past year. My husband and I have talked about it lots and I was ready to try since last summer, my husband has now said we can go for it and suddenly I'm getting nervous!
I have found having two quite challenging at times and am just starting to feel more in control I'm worried about rocking the boat! Plus my youngest son is such a mummy's boy I worry about jealousy from him.
On the other hand, the thought of being pregnant again and adding another to out family really is lovely, plus as one of three myself I think three is a good number!