Have decided to go for number 4 ... am I mad?1

[TotorosOcarina]

Well, I know I am but wanted to talk to some 4 +ers!

Kids are 5,4 and 1.

This is definatly the last, am feeling excited but scared too!

Yes!

Next question!

(I can barely cope with two somedays! [smile[)

Me too. Mine are 6,4 and 1. I've been trying for 8 months now and its will def be my last.

Nope you're not. But I am !!

I'm really quite nervous about it!

Last night we did the deed and I felt quite freaked out after!

But am excited too.

Going to get DH to have the snip straight afer so I can't go 'just one more' 6 months later! lolol

I have four and it's great!

Good luck!

I am expecting number 4 any day, will probably not be my last.

If that's what you want, go for it.

Having grown up in a houseful (seven) where there was never any peace or a vacant bathroom, I'd rather poke sticks in my eyes, but if you want to and you think you can make it a happy home, I think you should do it

Lucky you :)

Its a little long, oops!!!!

I have four aged 5, 9, 11 and 14. They do things in twos sometimes. Three are boys therefore my daughter sometimes feels a bit left out.

At first I found it had to accept that I was not having any more. I have moved on now.

I am still mummy but they need me in a different way now.

I do not regret having four.

Do what you feel best to do as other people will say this and that. Having four is not much different to having three.

I just find that booking trips etc most places consider a family as 2 kids and 2 adults.

Your experience maybe be different to mine if you have four as you have a closer age gap between your three kids.

You do not need to be scared as all will be okay with number 4. Its not always easy but I have no regrets about it.