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Should I chase them, or wait for their call? Anxious!

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EggsistentialCrisis · 22/09/2026 13:55

Currently sat at work checking my email and phone every 5 seconds, wondering if I should be proactive, or patient, and which one will best serve me throughout this whole process. (First round, so new to this)

I had a scan and blood test done this morning and sent the results to my clinic at 10am, as instructed. It's almost 3pm now (I'm in France) and I still haven't had a call back, which they said they would do. They're supposed to be telling me whether or not I can begin the injections and I have a list of questions for them.

I have an email ready to go basically saying here are my results again as I want to be sure you've received them as I haven't had a call back, but I'm unsure whether I should send it, or just sit tight.

Any advice? I know I'm overly anxious, but just sitting here thinking perhaps being a bit more "forceful" throughout all of this won't be a bad thing? Or perhaps patience and trusting the process is better? Argh!

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lemons44 · 22/09/2026 19:09

They might just be waiting for a doctor to review them but if I learnt one thing from IVF it’s to advocate for yourself all. the. time.. because things can and do get missed! so if you think you might have slipped through the net just call them. Good luck with the cycle! x

EggsistentialCrisis · Yesterday 10:18

lemons44 · 22/09/2026 19:09

They might just be waiting for a doctor to review them but if I learnt one thing from IVF it’s to advocate for yourself all. the. time.. because things can and do get missed! so if you think you might have slipped through the net just call them. Good luck with the cycle! x

Thank you! Thankfully just as I was about to press send on the email, they phoned. Lady on the phone was fairly unpleasant though, so I'll definitely need to toughen up a bit!

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