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Unsure if ready for FET? How did you decide

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Rebekah77 · 07/04/2025 20:35

I’m so unsure if I’m ready or not for FET

my pain levels are pretty much now back to normal although endo is bad . I would of liked to be a bit lighter weight wise which is also stressing me out

really wanted to go for it in May but feel so worried I’m not ready physically or mentally

just feeling more stable now and settled
how do you know if your ready to try again ?

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Xwx1010 · 07/04/2025 21:14

There’s not always a perfect time, is now a good time for you?
Realistically when do you think you will have lost the weight you want? Are you prepared to wait for that?

for us, we we desperate to go ahead after 18m of losses and problems so we were excited to get going with ivf. I did say however if I wasn’t well enough for a fresh transfer (19 eggs collected) I would not risk it. I was well enough so we went ahead and embryo was a sticky one!

good luck with your decision, go with your gut x

Rebekah77 · 07/04/2025 22:46

I can easily loose another stone by transfer , I guess I’ll never be happy with the number so I may as well go for it

clinic have space for May

in no rush to feel so upset again but it’s another shot at it

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