I thought I was ok after my fail

[Lozzabella]

I recently had a failed FET .. at first I accepted it and moved on
but that was 4weeks ago
now I’m so emotional and angry - I feel frustrated and iVe begun isolating myself from
friends - I hate work have no motivation
is this normal ?
I feel like I won’t be happy unless I’m pregnant
to add my sister has just given birth to a beautiful baby boy and my best friend is due in a few weeks

Hi @Lozzabella I'm in a similar position, I got a BFN after my first FET 3 weeks ago. I've been channelling my energy into next steps, but now there's nothing I can or need to do for a few weeks and I just feel really fed up and angry.

I don't feel like reaching out to friends and feel like they either wouldn't want to hang out with me as I'm no fun, or they are too busy with their families, just feeling isolated. I also really can't be bothered with work, and like you just want to be pregnant and focus on that!

I dont really have any advice, but I totally get it and you're not alone!

@Orangewillow thank you for sharing this
it’s nice to know im not alone -sorry to hear this for you too 🥲

I pretty much feel the same. We had a negative pregnancy test a couple of weeks ago after a fresh transfer. Maybe I had high expectations it would work the first time. The last week has been tough, don’t like being around people, feeling a bit withdrawn and need to find a way to bounce back. Everything feels so unenjoyable.

Wishing you all the best. X

Good morning!
Many of us feel the same.
Can you try again?

@Lozzabella
We can have another try. I just feel to give it my best shot I need to be strong both mentally and physically (currently lacking mentally). I’ve tried acupuncture and will start reflexology this week.

Will you try again?