Hi all, I thought I would try posting here as I am finding it very difficult to find any support anywhere else. I am 41 (42 in Jan) and need to lose around 4 stone to get my BMI below 30 to have a round of IVF on the NHS. I am struggling big time to get in to the right mind set and have been self sabotaging for years trying to get this weight off. Now I feel like the time is ticking and I don't want to miss my chance for treatment. Is there anyone here who is going through something similar or if not, can I please be pointed in the right direction? Thanks in advance.