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BFN WITH FET 4DPT

28 replies

HannaFaisal123 · 17/11/2023 16:50

Hello everyone.

I caved in and took a pregnancy test at 4dpt with a frozen transfer and it was negative. Im feeling very let down and upset. Has anyone got any positive stories to share. According to the clinic my embryo reached blastocyst at day 4 and was frozen then and they have transfered 2 embryos. They done the transfer 2 months after the egg collection.

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IVFKinster · 17/11/2023 21:52

You're testing way too early. You were never going to get a positive at this stage. Try to wait until at least 9dp5dt although I know it's really hard. If you do test early you really need to not let it get to you because you're being unfair with your expectations. Goodluck!

HannaFaisal123 · 17/11/2023 22:03

I just seen all the positive stories of others getting very clear positives at 4dpt that's why I tested this early. I hope your right and I do get my positive! Thank you so much

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SH998 · 18/11/2023 04:21

I think your testing too early, I’ve tested positive twice once on the evening of day 5 and the other on the morning of day 7. Both were faint so not sure the lines would have shown any earlier had I tested sooner.
Good luck

Iliketwirls · 18/11/2023 09:05

Way too early, especially with a frozen. Try again in the evening 5dp5dt with a FRER

HannaFaisal123 · 18/11/2023 09:14

I tried 4dpt am
4dpt pm
Then I just don't one now 5dpt am and it's still stark white negative
I had sore boobs but that feeling is also starting to go 😪

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HannaFaisal123 · 18/11/2023 09:14

Thank you for the reassurance. I couldn't help but test again this morning and it's negative again 😪

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figgyandpig · 18/11/2023 17:28

I’m reading this thread because I’m going through the exact same and reaching out to find other stories with good endings!
im 4dp6dft and tested negative today (I’ve done 4 through out the day, all negative) It’s my second frozen transfer, the first I tested positive on day 5pt, very very faint but was there. Sadly that ended at 6 weeks.
im hoping this one works. It’s still thinking it’s early days for us and some blasts don’t finish implanting until day 7. Keep hope we will get there xx

HannaFaisal123 · 18/11/2023 20:43

Please please keep me updated! Praying for you and thinking of you. Xx

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HannaFaisal123 · 19/11/2023 09:38

Hi did you do any tests today?

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HannaFaisal123 · 19/11/2023 13:03

Thank you so much

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figgyandpig · 19/11/2023 15:39

Hi yes I did one with my first morning wee and it was negative. I’m still on 5 days post transfer but last time I got a positive on day 5 so was expecting the same this time round. I’m feeling pretty deflated but know I’m technically not out yet. What about yourself? I’ve got some frer tests arriving between 5-8pm so will do another tonight. My husbands annoyed with me for testing so early which is just not helpful. They don’t bloody get it! Oh well, we just have to keep moving forward. It’s pretty relentless though 😔 hope you have some positive news hunny xxx

figgyandpig · 19/11/2023 15:47

Thank you for this info! I’ve read through it and found it very helpful. X

HannaFaisal123 · 19/11/2023 19:54

I hope you get you positive soon please keep us updated xx

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HannaFaisal123 · 19/11/2023 19:55

Don't worry it's still very early. Technically it's only 3 weeks and 4 days! I done one this morning and thought I seen a very very very faint line but camera won't pick it up for me to show you unfortunately! Did you do the frer? And yes definitely they don't understand at all😪 don't worry we got each other on this group xxx

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figgyandpig · 19/11/2023 21:16

Ahh amazing good luck hunny I really hope it gets darker for you 🤍🤍🤍

HannaFaisal123 · 20/11/2023 00:22

Thank you so much! How you getting on?

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figgyandpig · 20/11/2023 19:36

Yeah I’m out I think. I’m 6 days post transfer and have tested this morning and this evening and both negative. I should have implanted by now. I called my clinic because I’d rather not keep on with the medication (it costs so much & could use it for the 3 round) & let my period come on.

how are you? Xx

HannaFaisal123 · 20/11/2023 22:58

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! But I think it's still too early. I understand the medicine being expensive but I have seen people not get their positives until 10dpt.
I got a positive but its still very very faint not changed in colour so I'm going tomorrow to get my bloods done as I will be 10dpt tomorrow xx

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CycleGirl20 · 21/11/2023 05:59

@HannaFaisal123 quiet congratulations! Mine was quite faint at that stage. Depends what kind of test you use too

figgyandpig · 21/11/2023 09:11

Ahhhh amazing congratulations hunny. I’ve been trying for 4 years and have been pregnant 3 times. I’ve done hundreds of tests so believe me I’d see something. I’m not convinced I’m pregnant this time round but feeling positive for the next one. Xx

HannaFaisal123 · 21/11/2023 12:29

You will get your rainbow baby! Good luck to you and I hope your okay xx

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HannaFaisal123 · 21/11/2023 12:29

I'm just using the cheap ones of ebay xx

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HannaFaisal123 · 21/11/2023 12:52

I have just started cramping and spotting

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figgyandpig · 22/11/2023 22:22

HannaFaisal123 how did your bloods go? I’m sorry you’re having cramps and spotting. Fingers crossed it’s all ok & just part of the process. I’ve had a few friends spot through their pregnancies xx