TTC number 2 after successful IVF for number 1

[TTC6]

Hi. I am totally new to these forums but I thought I would post my story to see if anyone has had similar/or has any advice.
I am 33 started TTC 6 years ago. Our first round of standard ivf had low sperm and egg binding and unfortunately was unsuccessful. We then moved to another clinic and did a round of ICSI in 2019 which we were very blessed to have a healthy baby boy from in 2020, and one frozen embryo.
A miracle happened when we conceived naturally when my little boy was one, but unfortunately ended in a MMC at 9.5 weeks (mid 2021). I ended ip having to get a D&C.
Since then we have gone through a further 4 fresh rounds of ICSI (transferred A-C quality embryos each time but none to transfer) and the FET of the frozen embryo from my sons round which ended in a chemical pregnancy.
My last round we tried steroids, intralipids, antibiotics, dhea and Coq10.
I have low AMH 2.21. I have since had a hysteroscopy and endometrial biopsy which results have come back normal. And waiting for karotype blood tests back.
I also have an under active thyroid which is very well managed so apparently should not be affecting fertility.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? My consultant keeps telling me it's just bad luck..but I'm finding that hard to believe with so many failed rounds now after having success (relatively easily). Thank you!

Hi@TTC6 I’m sorry to hear you’ve had such a tough time of it. I don’t know if you want to join us on our thread which has a very similar name! There’s quite a few of us on there in the same situation, we’ve all found it much more difficult to conceive number 2.
A bit about me, we’re really lucky to have a little boy who was born in May 2021 from our first transfer amazingly enough, but since then I’ve had 5 failed transfers including 1 early loss, along with various investigations.
I only started posting on here earlier this year so I’m still fairly new to it, like yourself. I’m still a bit of an amateur so I’m not sure how to copy the link 🤦‍♀️ but if you scroll down the page of recently updated threads, you’ll find it and it’s got pretty much the same name - ttc no 2 after successful IVF for no 1.
I’ve found it incredibly helpful and supportive as we’re all in the same boat, so have a read if you feel like it and you’d be very welcome to join us x