Hello 💕
Looking for some support on where to go next.
We came off contraception in June, had a suspected ectopic in July and a CP in August. We had no medical intervention for the EP, we did expectant management.
After the first I quickly picked myself up ready to try again but the second hit much harder. Everything you read tells you that the chances of a second loss are extremely slim so I went into it with that hope only to be crushed when I started bleeding the second time.
I’ve contacted my GP who have referred me to the gynaecologist at our local hospital for testing which is great but I have just checked my referral and it says I could be waiting until November to hear anything. I can’t wait that long, I feel like I’m going insane. I do nothing but google my symptoms and what could possibly be wrong with me all day every day. We’re skipping a month and then trying again in October but I need to know I’ve done something different between now and then to hope for a better outcome.
We’ve agreed that we are going to look at private testing but I have no idea where to start. I’ve found a few clinics near us but what specifically should I be looking for? What tests should I be getting? I don’t want to go all in on the full works of testing just yet but I need to start somewhere.
I just need a glimmer of hope for the next one ✨