I've done three rounds of IVF and have of course thought a lot about egg and sperm donation as part of the process. I just wondered how other people made decisions about whether or not to pursue the donation route. I'm about to turn 41 and donor egg would be simpler but my heart says no. I struggle with the ethics of it and the money that changes hands... I also wonder about the future effect on the child. Just looking for different viewpoints I suppose!