FET questions

[Rosesareblue123]

Hi All

I have a question about my third FET that I had on Monday. My previous two FETs ended in miscarriage and this is our final shot. The previous two were done at a different clinic to what I’m at now. This time it felt and was different and I would love to hear your experiences to see if this is “normal”.

The embryologist started out saying that my embryo wasn’t the best but was doing okay. Previously they were saying that it was really good.
They didn’t use ultrasound and so I didn’t get to see the embryo being transferred. This was used at my previous clinic.
Previously, I had a little smear like scrape pain. This time, nothing. Apart from the speculum, I felt nothing.
I have been prescribed blood thinners which after the appointment, they changed from 5 weeks worth to 2 weeks worth.
No photo was given of the implanted embryo.

is this normal or am I starting to go crazy very early on in my TWW? Thanks I’m advance.

I have been through three transfers. Third was successful. I felt no different on the third to the other two. Try not to test. Try to just get through this really hard wait as calmly as possible x

Thank you for your very supportive comment. It’s really appreciated x

My pleasure. I know how tough this journey is but trust me, testing daily and stressing about lines and triggers and symptoms will send you under xx