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Boyfriend upset with me because I can't conceive

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chychyete · 27/06/2023 23:14

Hey everyone , I have a child already with previous relationship

My now boyfriend wants a baby so badly he doesn't have any himself he's a great step dad however i'm dealing with PCOS atm so it's quite hard for me

Every time I take a pregnancy test and it's negative his mood just changes towards me he makes me feel so bad about what's going on with myself right now

I don't know what to do even to the point when I show him cute pregnancy announcements he gets upset and tells me he don't want to see them

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Muchamucha · 28/06/2023 05:47

If he doesn’t have kids and you do then it’s more likely the issue is with his swimmers than your PCOS - which is very common and whilst it can affect fertility it doesn’t necessarily make you infertile, proven by the fact you already have a child.
Whilst his reaction is very immature and insensitive it may be that it’s a lack of communication that’s the issue here, you think he’s in a mood with you for not conceiving but it could be that he is upset with himself because he thinks he is the reason you aren’t getting pregnant.

Get him to take one of those at home soerm tests - available from boots etc - which give an indication if there is an issue with his sperm and based on the result of that you may be able to see more about what’s going on.

FiddleLeaf · 28/06/2023 20:56

Sorry Op, he’s a bad guy. See that screaming red flag.

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