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IVF/ICSI June 2023

577 replies

countrypunk · 04/05/2023 17:40

Hello, I'm starting a June thread for IVFers - I couldn't see one on the board. Please join!

I'm 39 and this will be our second round. The first round in November resulted in 2 blastocysts from 10 eggs. First transfer failed, got pregnant from the second transfer but miscarried at 9.5 weeks at the beginning of April.

Now raring to go again!

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NicHopingForARainbow · 29/06/2023 18:31

@Qwertyas it's a tough one - if the scan goes well it's amazing but if it is inconclusive then you've got a horrible long wait for a week while you wait to see if there's any changes.

OTD is this Sunday. We've got a holiday planned end July then I think I'd like to go straight into frozen transfer. We have 4 embryos frozen and im tempted to ask for 2 to be transferred as well! X

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:32

@Chickencrazy3356 great news your 2 embryos are normal. You have a great chance of success! So sorry to hear about your brother, it's strange how things all seem to happen at once x

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:34

@Honeybunie its a month of downregulation (once I finally start bleeding it's been 8 days now since EC!) then a mock cycle with era, then Fet. I have implantation issues so trying to get it all right xx

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:36

@Honeybunie totally agree about day 3 embryos. Some of their protocols are absolute rubbish. Makes you wonder what other bad decisions they make in the lab? Hope you enjoy your well earned break before getting back to the grindstone again! Let's hope each stage gets us closer to our miracle babies xx

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:41

@IVFGotThis05 the eggs grow up to 2mm a day in the later stages of stims. As long as you don't have a lead follicle they can keep them growing for a while yet! I got 8 eggs from ec and was very upset thinking it wasn't enough. Was lucky to get 3 good quality blasts from those. There's lots of hope and quality is way more important than quantity with eggs x

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:43

@Qwertyas so exciting your miracle is happening! I'm so pleased for you. Gives us all hope x

MAbbott34 · 29/06/2023 21:45

@Qwertyas yes Fet once I've downregulated and done a mock cycle x

b0zza1 · 30/06/2023 12:43

IVFGotThis05 · 29/06/2023 12:10

@Chickencrazy3356 What a year for you :( ! I'm pleased for your embryo's!

I've just come back from my 6 day scan during stims and just feel a little deflated. I feel like I'm running out of eggs! 3rd cycle for me and I already had AMH of 10 when I first started IVF in 2021. 3 unmeasured on left ovary (nurse wasn't saying much so I'm guessing not a lot of hope for that side) and 10 on right measuring 10 and under. supposed to have egg collection 6th July. I have a little feeling I'll be stimming a little longer.

I'm usually quite optimistic but today is not that day! I may feel better tomorrow!

Is anyone at a similar stage? any egg collections soon?

Hi @IVFGotThis05
I just went for my day 6 scan and also feeling a little low! 10 follicles counted. I wanted more.. Oh well, just the beginning of this cycle really and I know I know, it's quantity not quality. My funny low thinking is 'and I bet they're low quality too' 😂 We're funny aren't we.

Qwertyas · 30/06/2023 13:33

NicHopingForARainbow · 29/06/2023 18:31

@Qwertyas it's a tough one - if the scan goes well it's amazing but if it is inconclusive then you've got a horrible long wait for a week while you wait to see if there's any changes.

OTD is this Sunday. We've got a holiday planned end July then I think I'd like to go straight into frozen transfer. We have 4 embryos frozen and im tempted to ask for 2 to be transferred as well! X

@NicHopingForARainbow Ah, that’s so great there’s some frozen if needed. Four sounds a comfortable amount too;🤞🤞 that means no more ECs!
If you do end up having another transfer, it’s going to be sooo nice after having a post holiday reset too 😊
I can definitely see the temptation of a double transfer too!

Qwertyas · 30/06/2023 13:36

@MAbbott34 thank you for your kind words! We have everything crossed.
Your clinic sounds super thorough with a mock cycle! That’s great xxx

FiddleLeaf · 30/06/2023 13:46

Afternoon 👋🏻 Just got home from our EC and we got 12 eggs. Less that we expected but it sounds like a good number 🤷🏻‍♀️

Feeling quite anxious to find out how many are mature and fertilised tomorrow. I wish I could speed up time 😞

MAbbott34 · 30/06/2023 14:43

Thank you! It's definitely not my clinic I've arranged my mock cycle myself in a different clinic! Bit of a diy ivf 🤣

MAbbott34 · 30/06/2023 17:01

@FiddleLeaf 12 is a fantastic number! The waiting game is horrific. Try not to get focussed too much on the drop-off as it can really vary each day. Don't envy you going through it I was a nervous wreck x

Qwertyas · 30/06/2023 17:03

Love that @MAbbott34 ! Good for you! If you glean any insights in the process, let us know!

@FiddleLeaf Twelve is so so good! Well done you, I hope you’re taking it easy and being spoilt by your OH this afternoon! Hoping you get great news early tomorrow xxx

FiddleLeaf · 30/06/2023 17:13

Thank you my loves. I was very awake for a few hours but spent the last few asleep. I only fancy sweet stuff now 🤤

I hope 12 is enough to get a baby home 🤞🏻

MAbbott34 · 30/06/2023 20:40

@Qwertyas i do have some bits to share that may help some women. Some may already know about this, but Immunology plays a massive part in implantation and many older women (or younger with autoimmune issues in the family) will need some immune support to get pregnant. I'm having a natural killer cell biopsy, era/emma /Alice alongside a mock cycle to ensure my uterine environment is hopefully just right. I'm also going to be taking steroids and Intralipid infusions with my transfer. It's expensive, a pain in the arse as it takes another month before Fet but I know I have implantation issues so I feel I need it. Any women with repeated failed ivf with good quality embryos should 100% look into it xxx

badassmum22 · 01/07/2023 07:24

Good morning, anyone on Pergoveris? I'm considering to buy the medication while abroad today and would like to compare what the price is in the UK. I've been prescribed Pergoveris 900. Thank you

NicHopingForARainbow · 01/07/2023 08:47

Hi @badassmum22 I've not heard of it before sorry, what is it for out of interest?

NicHopingForARainbow · 01/07/2023 08:57

Hi @MAbbott34 good luck with your biopsy, where are you having it done if you don't mind me asking? My clinic put me on prednisolone after egg collection in case I have natural killer cells which could have contributed to miscarriages but I've not had a biopsy to check.

Flowerlover010 · 01/07/2023 08:58

@badassmum22 i had pergoveris it cost around £480 i think

NicHopingForARainbow · 01/07/2023 08:59

Good luck @FiddleLeaf 12 eggs is great! Hopefully get some really good embryos 🤞

FiddleLeaf · 01/07/2023 09:46

Of our 12 collected eggs only 6 have fertilised and a 7th trailing but might make it too. The embryologist said it’s normal & not to worry but I feel very disappointed & scared we’ll have nothing by day 5 😔

Gryffindoratheart · 01/07/2023 11:05

Congrats @Qwertyas 🎉 I think I would wait for the 6 +6 scan personally

I have my egg collection scheduled in for Monday - looking at collecting 2/3 eggs 🤞 and with my low AMH that number would be perfect.

Then have the long wait to find out if a transfer will be happening next Saturday (day 5).

Both excited and nervous!!

Lebe14 · 01/07/2023 14:43

@FiddleLeaf well done on the EC. 6 is great! I had my EC yesterday and had 4 retrieved. Got the call from the embryologist and 2 have fertilised. The other 2 weren't mature 😔

Like you, I'm really really hoping at least 1 makes it to day 5. Won't get another call until Wednesday (unless of course it's bad news). The waiting is doing me no good haha.

How are you feeling after the EC? I'm not too bad - slept loads yesterday and just a little uncomfortable at times today, but not needing any pain relief. Hope that continues!

@Gryffindoratheart hope your EC goes well on Monday. I too have low AMH (4.4)!

X

FiddleLeaf · 01/07/2023 16:20

Hey 👋 @Lebe14 , we just need that one but blimey this waiting is no good for control freaks 😩. I’m due to get a message on Monday (day 3) with progress or they’ll call if they’re concerned about anything. All being well I’ll be back in for the transfer on Wednesday. Are you doing a fresh transfer?

I’m doing ok. My stomach is VERY rounded today, boobs are getting increasingly painful so are practically strapped down in M&S’s most grannyish crop top & tbh, I’m constipated which can’t be helping anything! We start jabbing (lubion progesterone) tonight and I’ve got pessaries twice a day. Sigh!

Glad you’re feeling alright after EC & thanks for the reassurance on my number. I’m trying to stay pretty chilled about it all but it’s so hard!