Missed Misscarriage, pregnancy & normal Misscarriage at 21 please read

[Inarliuk1]

Hi, I'm writing this post in the hopes someone shares a similar story with me. I'm not too sure what I'm about to even write as my head is up my A** but here goes...

March 2020 I had a Misscarriage at 6-7weeks roughly
December 2020 I went for my 12 week scan, baby was only 8 weeks. Had been dead 4 weeks

Successfully had a healthy baby girl November 2021
Today I attended what was supposed to be my 12 week, baby only grew to 7 week. Dead 5!

I always thought after each MSC the risk of another grew less, after a successful pregnancy I imagined the risk would be even less. Does anyone have any idea why my body does not get rid of the fetus?
apart from a foul smell each time from my vag, which doctors and consultants ignore, I am always right & my 2 previous msc have both turned septic due to this being ignored. The smell for me is the only indication to something is wrong. I have always known my body very well, I for a few weeks have been adamant that when I attended this scan the baby wasn't alive and it was a gut instinct having been it before.
I have done the natural management & medical management and both times my body has failed to empty of the tissue resulting in me being hospitalised.

This time I have opted for the surgical removal as I see this the best option as all other options have previously failed for me.

Why does this happen!


Hi op I’m very sorry for your losses. I also had one dc and many losses late in the first trimester. Similarly, if never miscarry naturally.
Many women on here have secondary infertility, even though they have one healthy ( often easily conceived dc)
How old are you?
Have you had any of the miscarriages tested? I would suggest testing this one. This will help you understand if it’s a chromosome issue or not , at least for this one.
Has your GP referred you to the recurrent miscarriage clinic? This referral should happen after three mcs.
Has your GP done a full blood screen to check things like your thyroid, vitamin d etc?
My issue looks like an immune issue, with my body attacking embryos as foreign dna.
I had treatment and had another dc. There are several clinics that test for this if you look for threads about it on mumsnet
I’m sorry it’s such a horrible experience. I found the surgery was quick and pretty painless and enabled me to physically move on quicker than other methods

@Cherry79

Hi op I’m very sorry for your losses. I also had one dc and many losses late in the first trimester. Similarly, if never miscarry naturally. Many women on here have secondary infertility, even though they have one healthy ( often easily conceived dc) How old are you? Have you had any of the miscarriages tested? I would suggest testing this one. This will help you understand if it’s a chromosome issue or not , at least for this one. Has your GP referred you to the recurrent miscarriage clinic? This referral should happen after three mcs. Has your GP done a full blood screen to check things like your thyroid, vitamin d etc? My issue looks like an immune issue, with my body attacking embryos as foreign dna. I had treatment and had another dc. There are several clinics that test for this if you look for threads about it on mumsnet I’m sorry it’s such a horrible experience. I found the surgery was quick and pretty painless and enabled me to physically move on quicker than other methods

Hi I had the procedure this morning it was actually not as bad as I thought it would be, they have sent this fetus off for testing & referred me to a clinic as you said, I do have low vitamin D usually around 7-15 I'm sure when it's supposed to be 25. Hopefully I get some answers xx thank you for commenting sometimes if feel like your the only one going though domething I know I'm not xx

I'm 21 x