If you had suffered multiple losses ..

[Queensize]

And were in the early weeks of a new pregnancy, what would you find it helpful for people to say or do?

Hi there @Queensize I guess you’re asking for a friend which is really kind.
It’s quite a sensitive time. I think just letting them know you’re there to talk and you’re thinking about them is really nice. For me, I wanted to talk about it a lot, no advice or comments like ‘ it will happen one day’ etc just listening and being there.
There is advice I can give about losses and things I tried ( now had a baby) but your friend has to ready for advice and that’s always difficult to judge. If she talks about what she could try when ttc next, I’m happy to help and she can message me

To be honest I wouldn't really want anyone to talk about it - I preferred to just get a big hug and then it not be mentioned again unless I wanted to specifically talk about it