Hi everyone, hope you don’t mind if I join.
@Endogal in response to your question about NHS waiting, my wait has been pretty long but not things are moving they do seem to be moving pretty quickly.
Me and my husband have been TTC just over 2.5 years. Will be 3 in July this year.
Went to doctor at 12 month mark, told to go back in a year cause they can’t do anything until 2 years have passed.
Went back after 2 years, had day 2-3 bloods and day 21 bloods. DH got paperwork for SA.
Day 21 bloods fine - they were taken end of August time. Ive not been given numbers but show I’m ovulating. Was pretty sure about that anyway as regular periods, peaks every month etc
Day 2 bloods were a bit of a nightmare. Taken around September time. First lot of bloods did show borderline thyroid issues and high prolactin levels. Another blood test was issued but I had to wait about 12 weeks from first set of bloods which added time.
Second set of day 2 bloods, thyroid was okay but prolactin still high. Doctor not sure what to do as not high enough to suggest tumour. He wrote to endocrinologist to see if they wanted to see me. This was done early December.
By Jan I chased docs, endocrinologist confirmed that cause day 21 bloods were good not an issue and they did not want me referred. Was told then that needed STD swab before referral could be sent. Got that done mid January time - they said they would then refer they just needed result for referral.
DH SA is fine as far as we are aware. They wouldn’t tell me, but basically said if they hadn’t contacted DH (they hadn’t) it’s because there’s nothing wrong.
This week got an appointment with fertility clinic at derby royal. That is for 14th March.
All in all, it’s taken forever to get to this point, but by Jan docs had everything they needed and referral appointment seems to have come fairly quickly.
The appointment is for me and DH - im assuming they’ll arrange a scan, maybe Check if tubes are blocked etc before anything else. Realistically, based on time we have been TTC we’re going down an IVF route so I’m hoping that will happen sooner rather than later.
In those 2.5 years I’ve never had a BFP do something clearly isn’t working!