Any stories please feeling utterly lost

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Had my ivf clinic scan today, by transfer dates I'd be 7 weeks today. I went to epu last Thursday for pains and they scanned me and dated me at 5+5, today I measured 6+5 so that adds up. But no fetal pole was seen today and I was told by the nurse she'd expect to see one by now, she wouldn't tell me what's going to happen but that 9/10 she would see a fetal pole by now. Am I going to miscarry? I'm absolutely devastated I can't believe this has happened. I'm going to be referred to the hospital so yet more waiting. Does anyone know what might happen now ? Is it just more scans ?

You’ll be going back soon won’t you? Hopefully, you’ll get a definitive answer. Pregnancy tests will keep showing positive either way . Wishing you the very best

Scan is Monday. Yeah that's true, had one in the cupboard and wanted some reassurance but it doesn't mean anything at this point does it !

Not a good update, mmc confirmed. Baby stopped growing at about 6 weeks. Epu were brilliant can't fault them, very kind and prompt treatment (which is what I wanted)
Feeling very emotional atm and waiting for the pain to kick in, bit worried.
Thanks for the support xx

I’m so sorry op, I’ve been there so many times and it’s so heartbreaking. Massive hugs from me to you. At least you have an answer now because it was all uncertain for so long. I hope you have support around you xx

I'm so sorry 💔 Thinking of you.

Thank you both. I feel lost to be honest, was doing all the medication etc since the beginning of august working towards something, and then obviously got a postive and now... nothing. It's just all gone in a flash and I feel really down. I'm sure the hormone crash won't help but just feel pretty fed up now.

I used to feel the same , so much time and like you say meds and cost of everything . Hopes dashed. It’s so hard 💐