Failed FET

[jen87tills]

Hi
It's my first time on here and really hoping to get some reassurance and to talk to some people who are going through the same as me,
Been on the IVF journey for 3 years now, first round on the NHS failed with none of our eggs fertilising, so we then had to go private.
We opted to do the 3 cycle package with create/ABC as we were advised by the doctor with my partner having low sperm count. In between all this they thought I had a polyp, so after 3 hysteroscopys they finally said my lining was thicken so went for a procedure called Myosure to have the lining reduced which now it is.
So from our 3 egg collections we only got 3 frozen embryos.
Had my top graded egg transferred 10 days ago to find out today it's a BFN, I'm absolutely gutted and so sad, just feel when will it happen and actually fall pregnant. I feel we don't have much chance with such low egg collections and my partners sperm been so low.
Anyone else had this experience or story's would really help me understand to have some positive out look on things

Sorry your first transfer hasn't worked I know hard it can be

I did 5 rounds of IVF and 4 transfers. The last 3 cycles were a 3 cycle package with Create - ABC more expensive sister clinic 😬 - from that I got 4 frozen embryos

I was disappointed not to get more - I was "aiming" for 6 - don't know why but felt like a good number to have banked.

The good thing is you have 3 embryos - if IVF has a 30% success rate and NHS recommends factoring in 3 rounds for the best chance of success then the "odds" are that one of your 3 will be successful 🙏🏻🤞🏻

@tiggerwhocamefortea

Sorry your first transfer hasn't worked I know hard it can be

I did 5 rounds of IVF and 4 transfers. The last 3 cycles were a 3 cycle package with Create - ABC more expensive sister clinic 😬 - from that I got 4 frozen embryos

I was disappointed not to get more - I was "aiming" for 6 - don't know why but felt like a good number to have banked.

The good thing is you have 3 embryos - if IVF has a 30% success rate and NHS recommends factoring in 3 rounds for the best chance of success then the "odds" are that one of your 3 will be successful 🙏🏻🤞🏻

Think I need to start looking in a more positive way, but it's so hard when something hasn't worked. I need to throw myself into keeping myself busy and have my fingers crossed for the next transfer