When to know when to give up

[Geyser33]

Hello hope everyone is ok. I am struggling after x4 early miscarriages over the last 2 years. I went for 13 vials of blood yesterday as being investigated now. I have a healthy 9 year old who I am so blessed to have but now am 40 just thinking it may be too late. I so desperately want to give her a sibling but can't keep going through this mental ans physical torture every time it goes wrong.
Anyone else experiencing the same?
Xxx

@Geyser33 sorry to read your story.

I am in a similar situation - have a 7 year old daughter conceived naturally with no issue. Have been TTC again for 4 years now. 4 trfs and 2 BFN and 2 early miscarriages - the last of which required a medically managed miscarriage.

I feel completely fed up with the whole thing and we are currently deciding if we should continue or focus on the positives of what we are very lucky to have.

No answers / advice I'm afraid x

For me I told myself I'd only be at peace with stopping once I could wake up on the morning with no regrets, that there wasn't something we could have tried but didn't (except for using donors or surrogacy which isn't for us). We spent our life savings (and more) and embarked on multiple rounds of ivf x

Hi there, I can understand how you feel. I have a 3 years old daughter conceived naturally and I've been TTC for nearly 3 years ending up in a miscarriage. I would like her to have a sibling but on another hand I really appreciate the fact that at least we have her. To have no regrets, I am ready to go for 1 IVF cycle so me and my husband could put a final dot to say that we have tried everything.