Don't know what to do

[jadey0885]

Hi guys

I am mother of 2 children. I have been finding it very hard to conceive.
My eldest is 11 born in 2008, a miscarriage in 2009,then another miscarriage in 2013 and then I had my youngest in 2014 who is now 5.

However as you can tell the age gap between my eldest and youngest is big..
me and my partner have been trying to have another baby for the past 2 years and literally I haven't had any luck. My partner has had his swimmers checked and I've had all the checks don't too and we are both fine.

What can I do?

What do you want to do?

What do you think your options are?

What tests have you had and what were the results?

Stop at 2?

Isn't 2 plenty?

I wouldn't be putting myself through the emotional trauma of another miscarriage. Not to mention the physical damage.

Might be time to just be happy with your lot.

Or take a 'if it happens it happens' approach. And whatever will be will be. Or not.

Can you afford ivf ? You perhaps should go for an initial consultation and see what a fertility specialist thinks
Have you had your thyroid checked ?

I've had all the checks you van asks for. Atm I'm seeing a fertility doctor and he has requested a transvirginal scan..
I no 2 is enough to some people but I've always wanted 4 children.band have always wanted a son. I no it sounds selfish of me.