5dp6dt FET... driving myself mad. Any hope?

[LouLouB1987]

Stupid stupid can't wait to POAS. Of course it was BFN

Had dull cramps on and off since transfer. Boob ache (not had this at all since starting IVF in March). Just generally feeling rubbish with very slight and infrequent nausea.

Anyone have BFN's this early on that went on to become BFP's???

And I know I've been stupid to test so early!! OTD is 24/8

Thank you @Cally70 and @SLR1982 trying my best to hang in! Just bloody hard isn't it!

Yes @Jojo19834 how did you get on?? X

Hi all, I had my bloods yesterday and they confirmed negative. Even though I had seen it I still didn’t believe it until I had the bloods. Stopped my tablets yesterday so just waiting for AF :-( next time hopefully it’s my time.

How you getting on @LouLouB1987? Hold strong until OTD

@SLR1982 and you?

@Jojo19834 so sorry to hear that. At least it gives some closure to start moving forward to the next time round. The limbo 2WW is harder in some ways!

Will test tomorrow I think. Got 2 FRER tests. At least that way I can sort of prepare for what will happen on OTD! Upside is we should get keys to our first home next week so I can keep busy if it's a negative outcome xx

I'm really sorry @Jojo19834. Fingers crossed for your two frozen embies.
I had a bit of a tough day yesterday, but today is a new day. I think I'm just feeling very stuck in limbo and I still haven't started AF having stopped all drugs at start of the week. Didn't get any blastocysts to freeze this round so it's a new full donor cycle ahead..,,but I'm waiting for the clinic to do a medical review of this round, make any recommendations for further testing if needed and after that I get to speak to consultant.

@LouLouB1987 I’m the same, getting my keys (hopefully in 3 weeks) so that is the upside to not being pregnant is that I can move and not worry about not being able to move stuff/build stuff/decorate stuff. Think it’s helped soften the blow as have something else major to focus on. Good luck with the move and the testing. Let us know of course!

@SLR1982 I can only understand what you have been through on a tiny scale. You have had a long journey and are so strong to keep going. I’m so glad I have my frosties as the thought of another round now is horrific. You’ve done multiple, trips abroad and donor with a BFP/MC and I can’t imagine that. As you have said, there’s no words that help but you are clearly strong and clearly want this so you will get it. Sorry AF is playing up grrrrrrr

Hey @SLR1982 @Jojo19834

I'm officially out. Negatives all the way. No frosties left either so we're back to square one. We're going to have a break until next year and focus on our new house.

Thanks for your support and I wish you all the very best xx

@LouLouB1987 I’m sorry to hear that, take some time, rest, move, get your body ready and fingers crossed for you next time xx

I'm so sorry @LouLouB1987. It's so unfair.
I am very happy to hear about your new house though.
It does sound like the perfect time to take a break from the IVF craziness.
We will all be here for you if and when it's the right time for you again.xx