2WW- Feeling so Negative is this normal.

[Fifigo89]

Hi i’m only 2dp5dt of a FET. So im so early on and i know that but for some reason i have this terrible gut feeling that its already failed. Abit of background. I had my first IVF in February but i had slight OHSS and had to freeze all. I only ended up with 4 embryos that made it to good quality 5 day blasts i had 2 transferred in May which ended in a CP. now i have just had the final 2 transferred. But feel like ive already lost hope. Is anyone else in their 2WW?

I am also 2dp5dt! And also convinced it can't possibly work.

What it comes down to is, the 2ww is just pure concentrated horribleness where you constantly second guess yourself. All you can really do is be kind to yourself, stay busy/distracted, be vaguely sensible (now is probably not the moment to take up heroin or start training for a new sideline in ultra-marathon running) and wait it out. The time will pass, soon enough.

The very, very best of luck to you!

Ahh thanks for your reply. Its horrible isnt it. I felt so positive until i got to the 2ww and now i feel so down- suppose because its all out of my hands now eh. Wishing you the best of luck also. Was yours a fresh transfer? X

Fresh transfer but from frozen donor eggs and sperm.

At least it's cooled down a bit today, I spent all yesterday convinced I was accidentally cooking the embryo!

I'm 10dp3dt double FETs and it's the worst! Had a virtual meltdown, convinced myself it hasn't worked, convinced myself it has...

This is our third cycle, did a single fresh 5DT on our first, followed by a double 5DT on our second, and not a sniff at a BFP.

Try to keep yourself busy and seeing people, otherwise you'll send yourself crazy.

Good luck! X

Ahh fingers crossed for you this time!! 10dp5dt your nearly there now. whats your test date?
Im just trying to stay as positive as i can xx

Thanks so much! My OTD is Weds but I'm testing tomorrow when I'll have my DH with me. Expecting the worst but hoping for the best. Take care of yourself xx

FingersXssd83 hope you got your bfp today xx

Thank you @Fifigo89!

Decided not to test until Weds which is our OTD now as AF hasn't arrived and I've been getting a few symptoms, so want to keep the hope that something might have happened! x