I haven't posted in a while. We've been TTC for three years with no success. Been having IVF for just over a year. Four cycles: 1st – no fertilisation; 2nd – ICSI, BFN; 3rd – ICSI, BFN; 4th – FET, BFN.
Ours is unexplained, but supposing it's an implantation problem based on our results. But no one knows for sure, or why, which is so, so frustrating.
Unexplained sucks – I feel for you. It's so agonising thinking you're stabbing in the dark not knowing if it's ever going to work, spending all this time, pain, emotional stress and money for potentially nothing.
Sorry, that's all a bit negative but I'm so jaded about the whole thing these days!
That's interesting @OneMoreForExtra. It sounds like you've had one hell of a time – I'm glad it worked out for you. I do get paranoid that it's something they're just not picking up on, or testing in the first place. Especially since we've been messed around sooooo much – they're admin is absolutely diabolical but we stay with them because they're supposed to be one of the best in the country (NHS-wise, anyway).
But at the same time I know it's a bit of a numbers game, and three full cycles isn't that many (especially with mid-grade embryos).