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Infertility

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Original poster

Is having sex without fertile CM pointless?

4 replies

AliceScarlett · 03/09/2018 22:29

Sex isn't fun anymore, I never see fertile fluid, so what is the point if the swimmers can't get through?

OP posts:

seven201 · 03/09/2018 22:44

You buy sperm friendly lubricant such as pre-seed or conceive plus. Both on amazon and other places.

Original poster

AliceScarlett · 04/09/2018 06:56

We can't use it, DH says it reduces the friction, so he doesn't finish.

OP posts:

Bunbunbunny · 04/09/2018 12:06

Your DH is being a bit selfish in not wanting to use lube as it can be painful without. Can't he compromise during your non fertile periods to use lube so you can enjoy it? It doesn't matter if he doesn't finish inside then can finish off another way

seven201 · 08/09/2018 18:52

Although the sperm friendly lube is meant to help Its definitely still possible to get pregnant without it.

Controversial but... could you put a small amount in (the pre-seed one is meant to be inserted) and pretend it's natural! Also, if you're not seeing fluid and he wants friction doesn't that make you sore?

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