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Cycle buddies Aug/Sept 2016

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HelloMist · 01/08/2016 19:06

Anyone just starting a cycle or about to?

I've just got the dates through for my first FET to TTC#2. My first LO is 18 months and was made with the help of ICSI and IVF. I start down regulating in a few weeks.

I've already gone through various emotions and I know there are a lot more to come! Anxiety and indecision wondering how I will cope with a second child if we're that lucky and the possible age gap. Sadness that my clinic told me I had to wean DD1 from the breast. Guilt at thinking about another and no longer 100% about her. (Especially if I weaned her and it doesn't work). Stupid thoughts that led me to test without telling DH when my second postpartum period (after weaning) didn't show on time (only spotting, false hope that it was implantation bleed. It's nearly impossible for us to conceive naturally though. AF came this weekend so here I am). Scared that it won't work. The stats are lower for FET and we only have 2 frosties.

The first injection will be at the end of a family holiday. I probably won't be drinking but don't really want to tell them why not yet. Despite all this I am excited too!

Anyone want to join me as cycle buddies?Smile

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Goodthingscome2those · 09/10/2016 20:42

Hi All, hope you've had a nice weekend.

Elle's - Any sings yet?

Mist - how you feeling?

Tata and fcuk hope you're getting on ok.

AFM, I was back for another scan today and I now have 7 follicles so feeling much happier. Am booked in for EC on Tuesday and got trigger tonight at 11 Hmm xxx

Goodthingscome2those · 09/10/2016 20:43

Hi All, hope you've had a nice weekend.

Elle's - Any sings yet?

Mist - how you feeling?

Tata and fcuk hope you're getting on ok.

AFM, I was back for another scan today and I now have 7 follicles so feeling much happier. Am booked in for EC on Tuesday and got trigger tonight at 11 Hmm xxx

ellesbellesxxx · 09/10/2016 21:19

I was just going to ask how today went Goodthings then saw your update :) that's great!!!!!!! So pleased the follies went for it :) will be thinking of you Tuesday! Have you got tomorrow off? If so, really do take time to look after yourself as Tuesday will feel exhausting. I made sure the house/washing etc was all sorted so that after EC we could really just chill.

Tata yay!!!! Feels so good when you are actively doing something and now you are another step closer!!! Fingers x!!!!!

Fcuk and mist, hope both doing well???

So I am patiently waiting for Friday... Will obv let you guys know, will be afternoon before we are both home!
My boobs are sore! And bigger (which is awesome as I am completely flat chested Grin) but although I am desperately hoping its because I am pregnant, the copious pessaries of progesterone I am on probably have something to do with it !!!

ellesbellesxxx · 09/10/2016 21:21

I had acupuncture yesterday.. I casually asked the other day if she would be able to tell from my pulse how the land was lying as it were! She said yes but it's not an exact science and she couldn't professionally tell me anyway! She got the giggles yesterday reading my pulse as I was eyeballing her whoops! Hehehe xxxxx

Thinking of you all! Hope you are still on cloud 9 mist xx

Goodthingscome2those · 09/10/2016 21:37

Hi Elle's, yes got all week off in case ET is during the week and doesn't make 5 days (Sunday), assuming we get that far!

Really hoping you get a BFP to join mist! Keeping everything crossed and looking forward to hearing from you on Friday! Xxx

tatatetelle · 10/10/2016 09:46

Hi Elles, yup things are moving and that feels great!! I've got a scan booked for next week to check how Clomid is working (I'm taking it today til Friday), fingers crossed it is and we can make the most of the ovulation window Grin

Good luck with the symptom spotting - it's not an easy one to avoid...and it can quickly drive you crazy!! But not long before you can test, that's SO exciting!!

Goodthings good luck for tomorrow, hope it all goes well., it's brilliant you now have 7 follies!!

Fcuk are you about to test soon? You were trying to catch an ovulation last week is that right? How are you feeling?

findingmyfeet12 · 10/10/2016 14:54

Hello, I'm new to the thread.

I had two 3 day embryos transferred last Monday.

It's my first IVF although I've had iui's before. One resulted in a pregnancy that I miscarried at 11 weeks.

I couldn't resist and did a test this lunchtime. I think I can see a very feint line but I'm not sure.

Cycle buddies Aug/Sept 2016
Fcukthetww · 10/10/2016 18:11

Hey Elles, Tata, mist, Goodthings
Hope everyone is doing well? We're just about coming into the 2ww now...am not feeling overly optimistic as this cycle we've kind of been left to our own devices but not ruling anything out. And we have been putting serious effort in to making sure ov week wasn't wasted. My day 21 bloods tomorrow should give us a clearer picture then 29/11 with the clinic if no pregnancy between now and then for tubal dye scan. Obv ive got my fingers crossed for a nice little positive test in time for mine and dh's anniversary on bonfire night 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Goodthingscome2those · 10/10/2016 18:23

Hi All,

Findingmyfeet, I think I can see a very faint line, so fingers crossed, are you going to test again tomorrow?

Fcuk - keeping everything crossed you get a BFP before tube investigations have to start Confused.

So I'm going in tomorrow for EC, feeling very nervous, but glad to be getting it done, as you all know I was so scared of having it cancelled, so I'm chuffed to get this far Smile. Will keep you posted with how many they get! Xxx

findingmyfeet12 · 10/10/2016 18:44

Good luck tomorrow Goodthings. I only had three eggs retrieved but they all managed to fertilise.

Goodthingscome2those · 10/10/2016 18:55

Thank you!
Wow 3/3 that's brilliant! Did you get to freeze one? Xx

findingmyfeet12 · 10/10/2016 19:03

Yes, they froze one at blastocyst stage. They were going to freeze two but we asked for two to be transferred and as I'm nearly 37 they agreed.

Goodthingscome2those · 10/10/2016 19:08

We were told they wouldn't put two back in (I'm 40 in February), maybe we can ask?

That's brilliant news, keeping everything crossed for you, when will you test again? Xx

findingmyfeet12 · 10/10/2016 19:13

A twin pregnancy is tough going so I guess they have their reasons. I think the only reason we asked was because we couldn't imagine being lucky enough for both embryos to implant.

I bought another test on my way home from work and I'm going to use it tomorrow morning.

ellesbellesxxx · 10/10/2016 20:47

Hi all,

Goodthings, will be thinking of you tomorrow!!!!!!good luck!!!!!

Fcuk... Welcome to the wait!!!!!!!!! Fingers x for you. Hoping it doesn't come to tubal tests!

Tata does the scan check you have ovulated or does it look for follicles? Good luck ;)

Mist, hope everything ok?

Findingfeet, good luck

ellesbellesxxx · 10/10/2016 20:48

Goodthings... They usually transfer 2 blasts if over 35... With me they only did two because they were not quite there... Worth checking! Xx

findingmyfeet12 · 11/10/2016 08:57

Tested again this morning and bfn.

The whole thing has been more gruelling than I imagined and now I have to face it all over again.

tatatetelle · 11/10/2016 09:51

Good luck today Goodthings!! xx

Sorry about the bfn Findingmyfeet, any chance it might still be too early for the poas test to detect it? Sad

Fcuck, Elles, keeping everything crossed for you!!!

So I took the first clomid last night, and have had a pretty bad night with hot/cold sweats and weird dreams. This week is going to be fun! (not)
Elles, the scan next week is to check the ovulation (I think), it'll be on cd11 so I'm assuming they'll be able to tell if clomid is working as it should and if a little egg is on its way to we can get at it like rabbits try with real chances of it working naturally.

ellesbellesxxx · 11/10/2016 13:19

Finding feet I expect it is still too early if they were three day embies? We have been told Friday for OTD which is 16 days after but really yours would be Friday too? Don't lose heart just yet.

Tata ohhh I see!!!!! Lots of early nights for you then ;)

ellesbellesxxx · 11/10/2016 13:19

Goodthings hope you are ok xx

findingmyfeet12 · 11/10/2016 13:44

Thanks for the nice comments. I'm 8 days post transfer today so you could be right.

We had a letter from the hospital this morning saying our remaining embryo didn't survive to freezing stage.

I hate all the false "symptoms" from the meds. My boobs are huge and a bit painful and I keep having twinges in my belly button which I've only ever had when I was pregnant.

Good luck to everyone else, whatever stage you are at x

Goodthingscome2those · 11/10/2016 17:10

Thanks for your well wishes ladies!

Tata - hope all goes well and you have fun over the up coming weeks

Finding - fingers crossed it's too early as Elle's said.

Elle's and mist - hope you're both doing ok and feeling positive for Friday Smile.

Fcuk - I hope you're doing well.

AFM, after all the apprehension, they collected 13 eggs and find out tomorrow how they got on. I was so pleased with that amount, let's hope they are quality Confused xxx

ellesbellesxxx · 11/10/2016 19:49

Goodthings that's amazing news YAY!!!!!! How are you feeling? Not too sore I hope. Hope you get good news tomorrow.. One hurdle... Leapt over!!!!! Xxx

Goodthingscome2those · 11/10/2016 19:55

Thanks Elle's, hopefully tomorrow brings good news.
Feeling quite sore and exhausted!
Can't wait to hear from you on Friday! Xxx

kezmarie · 11/10/2016 20:12

Hello ladies Smile
Apologies for being quiet, but I have been lurking!!
It's good to see so many of you progressing! I hope you all have lots of positive results!

2 weeks & counting till I have my baseline scan & start injections.....