Hi all
DH and I are struggling to make the leap to Ivf and I was wondering if anyone has any experience of exploring male factor infertility a bit further with a positive outcome?
For background, we have a 4 year old ds conceived naturally after 6 months. We have been ttc another for 2.5 years now and it's taking its toll on me mentally. We are now at the point where we need to make a decision/take proper action ourselves.
I have had all the tests including AMH and lap and dye, no issues have been found. DH has had a number of semen analyses - the count has varied between 2 million and 14 million, morphology 2-4%, motility I can't remember off the top of my head but I think it was ok and volume between 1-2ml. His testosterone levels are normal, but the lowest normal (10, I think, if that sounds right?), he has had an ultrasound, nothing was picked up apart from a very small cyst they said would be causing no harm. Our dr did point out that he has large testicles/they have good volume.. so perhaps something is obstructing his semen getting out. The Drs however are all gynecologists, no real male factor expertise.
We now need to decide whether we spend a significant amount of money trying to fix something that may not be fixable. Or bypass and go for Ivf with icsi.
I am struggling with the idea of Ivf, putting myself through all that when we have our DS. I just don't know if I have it in me. Plus we worry that if DHs morphology is so low, it may not work anyway.
I guess what I am asking is, what would you do? Investigate further or attempt to bypass with Ivf.