We were really lucky to conceive naturally with my DD, now age 6 and a half. She was really ill during her first year and the stress put DH completely off having another one. Cut a long story short, he remains happy, I've changed my mind but importantly, due to a prostate issue, he had to have a procedure called a Turp 2 years ago, resulting in the fact he can't ejaculate. Everything functions as normal but the sperm comes out in his urine. I've finally opened up to him to say that I'd like another child and initial google investigation suggests that he'd have to have a PESA / TESA, then it would be the ICSI route. Anyone doing this, or even just been through any part of it? What can I expect? How do I find the right fertility clinic? Argh, so many questions! Thank you....