I'm 38 and have been trying to conceive for 18 months. The past couple of years my periods have been irregular after always being very regular, every 28 days precisely. They now range from anywhere between 30 and 42 days and seem to be lighter and shorter. For the past few years i have been feeling hot at night in bed in the days before i get a period. Very recently though the warm feelings have got worse and seem to be full-blown night sweats. My bedsheets have actually been damp with me waking up dripping with sweat. I admit i have been feeling very stressed with this whole TTC issue and this is causing me to have panic attacks at night but never have i had night sweats like these. I'm terrified that at 38 i am going through an early menopause. Has anyone else had this happen ? What might cause this to happen in the lead up to a period if it isn't menopause ? Is it normal ?