Hi people we been trying for a baby , it's been five months now an nothing . I had a copper coil for four years I removed it myself pull the strings out , I really want a baby it's just not happening I m worried , I m using the ovulation test. so i no I'm ovulating , I v read all infor in the books eating healthly , folic, stay lying down after sex , I have been doing all dis , we have sex every day , an week before my periods due I do get da breast tender, swollen no other signs , on my p ,s . Has any1 elsa been on da copper coil . I m not stressing either its just when i start my period , I'm soooo disappointed , frustrated , angry.