ronaldinho - I didn't have a problem with dilemma posting this. I have a problem with it happening but burying my head in the sand isn't going to help. I personally feel that the more aware we all are about things like this the better.
It was early in the morning and I had spotted dilemma on another thread that morning I think. I shouldn't have said that she was 'cheerful' on this thread as I think it was another thread that she had been cheerful on.